How Do You Know If Your Cat Loves You
When I first got my cat, I assumed that she liked me. After all, she was always around and seemed to enjoy being petted. And yet, as time went on and I learned more about felines in general, I realized that the affection of a cat can be hard to decipher. Even today it’s not uncommon for people with cats to assume their beloved companions are happy when they’re actually not. With that in mind, here are some signs your cat is truly madly in love with you:
Cats are incredible animals, but they’re renowned for their aloof and enigmatic ways.
Cats are incredible animals, but they’re renowned for their aloof and enigmatic ways. As a cat owner, you may have asked yourself at one point or another: “Do my cats like me?” It’s a fair question—cats are known for not liking anyone (except their owners).
So what does it mean when your cat rubs up against you without any prompting? How do you know if your cat loves you? Is it possible that, deep down inside, all those aloof behaviors really do mean something else? To find the answers to these questions we must examine our furry friends closely.
Your cat “meows” at you.
Your cat meows to get your attention when he wants something or to let you know that he’s hungry. Meowing is a form of communication for your cats, so if you’re hearing it on a regular basis, there’s probably something else going on.
Your cat brings you presents.
- If you’re sitting down, your cat will come up and place a toy or other object next to you.
- If your cat is near you, he/she may bring something small and soft, like a feather duster or piece of paper.
- Your cat might bring something that makes noise (a pen cap) or moves (a piece of string) when touched by him/herself or others.
Your cat sleeps on you.
- Your cat sleeps on you.
Cats are often attracted to the warmth of humans and will rest their heads or bodies on them when they feel comfortable. They can sleep for up to 18 hours a day, so it makes sense that they would want to be close to the one who provides them with food and shelter—you!
Your cat likes to be petted when she initiates contact.
If your cat initiates contact, she wants to be petted. It is important to note that this behavior is only displayed when your cat is relaxed and content. If you’re just starting out, it’s best to wait until she makes the first move before initiating contact. This can sometimes take a few days or weeks of patience, but trust us—it’s worth it! After all, it shows you care about her feelings as much as your own and will never force her into anything uncomfortable or unwanted.
A good way to test whether or not your kitty loves you is by trying different methods: one day try scratching behind their ears while they’re napping on their favorite pillow; next time try rubbing their belly while they purr happily at being able to nap in peace without having any pesky human interruptions (this took us weeks).
Your cat greets you at the door.
Cats are more social than dogs. They greet their owners at the door, and they greet other cats and humans more than dogs do. If your cat greets you at the door when you get home, that’s a sign that he or she loves you. The same goes for two cats who meet at the doorway for the first time: if one of them is friendly and curious about getting to know the other, it means that cat has an interest in getting along with people (including you).
If your cat greets other people this way too—or any animal at all—it might mean they’re exceptionally friendly and outgoing. This could also relate back to their social nature as well as their willingness to go out of their way for those close to them (like family members).
Your cat follows you around.
If your cat follows you everywhere, it’s a good bet that they love you. Cats are naturally curious, and want to know what you are doing all of the time. They also want to be close to their owners because this shows that they feel comfortable with them. If a cat is following an owner around, it means that the owner has been accepted as part of their territory and has earned enough trust for their pet’s affectionate side to come out in full force!
Your cat seeks out your company while you do routine tasks.
Your cat is an independent animal. It’s in their nature to explore and seek out new things, so it’s not unusual for your cat to follow you around the house while you go about your daily routine. If they consistently choose to follow you into the bathroom, or hang out on top of the counter while you make dinner, there’s a good chance they want to be near you.
If your cat loves being around other animals or humans, this can also be another sign that they love spending time with them too. Cats are social creatures who enjoy interacting with others—that’s why they tend to bond so well with other cats at shelters!
Your cat rubs against things, but also against you.
The first thing to keep in mind is that cats rub against things to mark their territory. This includes other cats and people. So when your cat rubs against you, it can be because they’re marking you as part of their territory (which is a sign of affection) or it can be because they want something from you, like food or attention. Cats love attention, so if your cat is rubbing up against you, take time out of your day to give it some!
There are ways your pick up on your cats love for you, it just takes time to understand them
Cats are known for being independent and aloof, but that doesn’t mean they don’t love their owners. Learning how to read your cat’s body language is the best way to know if your kitty really cares about you.
Cats are affectionate when they want to be, so try not to take it personally if your cat doesn’t want attention from you one day. That said, cats do show affection in more subtle ways than dogs do (in fact, research suggests dogs are more likely than cats to hug their owners). If your cat rubs up against you or licks your hand when she sees you coming home from work every night, this is a sign of love and happiness!
If you’re looking for a cat that will give you unconditional love, look no further. The best way to ensure that your cat loves you is by being a good owner—and that means providing her with plenty of food and water, regular veterinary care, and lots of playtime (no matter how much she protests).
